But if she really looks at you, things are promising. What I mean is, make sure she isn’t looking just to the side at the hot dude standing behind you at the bar.
Checking you out and trying to get a good picture of what you are all about is a good sign.
Let me tell you another little secret: If you happen to notice her looking at you when she thinks you don’t know it, you really caught her attention.
A bit of awkwardness can actually be totally normal. Don’t mistake this for a negative sign and give up right away.
Nerves can actually be a greatÂ thing, guys! If this is the case, it will be the kind of awkwardness that you will laugh over down the road. So relax, it probably means you’re hot.
She’ll give off a sense of approval.
It’s possible she will try to control her excitement as not to let her guard down too quickly. This doesn’t mean she’s not impressed; she’s acting cool, calm and collectiveâ€¦but may be freaking out on the inside.
She’ll really pay attention to details.
This means she’s not checking emails, texting her friends or waving across the room to people she knows. And she certainly did not pull the line that she had to “use the bathroom” in attempts to run for the hills like she did with the last guy.
She is really listening to what you have to say because she doesn’t want to miss any details. She is observing carefully and taking mental notes. She will notice your teeth, your smile, your sense of style, what you say and how you say it, whether or not you offer to buy her a drink and pull out a chair for her if necessary.
Oh, and she will notice the condition and choice of your shoes. I don’t know whyÂ — it’s just a girl thing.
But if she doesn’t really know you and hopes to pursue something, she will want to do a quick check to make sure you are what you appear to be at first glance. This is not psycho crazy bitch girl behavior; it’s simply just a precautionary measure.
She will want to know the basics. Status, what you do, where you live. They may seem like dumb/boring questions, but we are not just listening to the answers.
We’re looking at your eyes when you say, â€œI’m single,â€ to make sure we actually believe you, or think you’re full of sh*t. We’re gaining a sense of what you’re all about. It shows us how you talk, whether or not you are a bragger and how confident you are.
She’ll casually drop a little personal information.
If she’s into you, she will make sure you know she is available. She will give you just enough information about her to piqueÂ your interest, but not too much at this point in case you turn out to be a loser, freak or complete stage-five clinger.
She wouldn’t let you know where she’ll be if she didn’t want you to possibly meet up with her. But it’s up to you to follow, boys.
So there you go!Â This isn’t rocket science after all.Â Once you master this list, you will easily recognize her signs.
But overall, follow your gut instinct. If things feel like they are going well, they probably are. When something just doesn’t seem to click, it’s most likely not meant to click.
It will be easy to tell if she is really looking at you.Â She shouldn’t look at you the same routine way she looks at her phone when she’s scanning through her texts.